Christmas tree not place for political mudslinging

Gerry Niskern

It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas. Soon the scent of fresh pine trees will join the aroma of cookies baking and simmering fudge. In recent years something more has been added to the menu as families and friends gather at the holidays to celebrate our blessings. The new item around the table is political rhetoric. There is always someone at social gatherings who cannot stay off politics. Tongues dripping with venom, they refer to “liberals” or “neo-conservatives,” depending on their take on current events. They’re fond of attaching labels on anyone who has a different opinion. The problem is, they usually only know one side, their side. Whatever political party their daddy or granddaddy belonged to, that’s their party. There’s a time and a place for political debates, but it is not family gatherings. There is one fact we all need to consider. We are heading into an election year that promises to be bruising. Although we are free to observe our special day any way we choose, I think we all agree we also want our children to remember the happy holiday times. Friends and family are the glue that holds our country together. The holiday traditions are the fiber and backbone of our nation. We all know that there are many talking heads on radio and television who are only concerned about their own agenda. What will they care, when the election is over, that old friends and family members are no longer speaking? There is a lot of discussion about civility these days. Each political party thinks the other should be more civil. Actually, with understanding, comes civility. And to understand, you must be informed; informed on all sides of every issue. Isn’t it great that in this country we are free to read the paper, not just your favorite, but any world paper? We are amazed at the different take on world situations, depending on the city or country. Online editions are available. We’re free to read a weekly newsmagazine that presents both sides of issues. Do yourself a favor. Don’t make the mistake of getting your opinion from one source. Learn to really listen to other opinions. Listening is a sign of respect. Listen for information, not ammunition to fling at friends. Every American needs a worldview because we live in an integrated world. How often have you heard someone remark, “I didn’t really know the layout of the Middle East until the war in Iraq?” It’s true that we don’t study geography extensively in our schools, but it’s not too late. If you have children or grandchildren, help them to open their eyes to the other countries and religions of our world. Lead by example. Read with them the origins of the Arabs and Jews, along with other ethnic groups. Discuss the differences and similarities. Encourage them to form their own opinions. Citizens of other countries know about our freedoms and about our holidays, too. They know that we can choose, you, me and everyone across this country, to gather family and friends and observe the day. They know that people have died for our unity and free speech. But, what exactly needs said? Plenty. Can it wait until after a holiday? You bet. What do you say? Shall we all get together on Christmas and not talk politics? Works for me.