“Arizona River Cruise Line”

By

Gerry Niskern

This was from a column of mine in the Arizona Republic a few years ago: A Fourth of July weekend.

Is your family thinking of taking a cruise this summer? Have you sent for all the brochures and picked out an interesting itinerary? Before you make any hasty decisions, let me suggest you commemorate the Fourth of July with an Arizona River Cruise.

The residents and visitors of Phoenix have been tubing down the Salt and Verde Rivers for a long, long time. Before all the dams were built, the two rivers flowed wide and full. As soon as there were old patched inner tubes available, there was a way to cool off in the Arizona heat in July. Before Resorts or even RV’s, Arizona families used to spend their vacation camping along the rivers.

Unlike the mandatory fashionable wardrobe for an ocean trip, let me describe the proper attire for a river cruise.  No matter which river you choose, you will need a bathing suit, a pair of cut off jeans; (to keep your backside protected from submerged logs and sharp rocks.) You’ll also need some old tennies, sun block, sunglasses, and a hat. The tubes heat up in the Arizona sun, so a towel to drape over the sides is a good idea too.

Typically, when our extended family took their 4^th of July cruise on the Verde River every summer,  it went something like this.

Grandpa couldn’t swim so he didn’t join floating party. He trucked the inner tubes to the river and met us down stream at the end of the day. Grandma’s Romel style straw hat had a bill. She wore it like the general when she directed the launching of our summer river cruises.

In the middle of July, it wasn’t necessary to be a good swimmer, just a strong walker. You were always glad you had your tennies on when you had to swing your leg down inside the tube and push off against the rocks if you were grounded. In no time at all, you would be bobbing along with the current.

Our kids, along with their cousins, wiggled into their tubes, clomped down the muddy bank and with a whoop and a holler, were on their way.  They delighted in the heady freedom of being allowed to go on ahead of the grown-ups.

The water was pure and cold. It felt like melted snow against our hot skin as we floated away, one by one.

We cruised the low, clear river over water sculptured rocks in ever changing moods and colors. As the desert glided by, we passed Mesquite, Palo Verde and an occasional stand of giant Cottonwoods, their green and yellow foliage hanging over deep green pools.

Invariably, as we floated by, we were ambushed by a band of river pirates dropping from the branches above. Waves swamped our river craft and grinning kids who looked familiar popped to the surface.   Sooner or later, one of the river pirates asked grandma for a safety pin to hold up his bathing suit; or another needed a Band-Aid. Grandma provided the items without fail from her waterproof plastic purse. You name it, she had it.

We floated on past little hidden pockets of lush vegetation. Blue herons swooped above the trees and settled on their skinny legs in the shallow water. Meanwhile, the strong, sentinel mountains held the brooding July thunderheads at bay.

Later, we sailed into a deep, green pool. Shouts and splashes echoed from the nearby cliffs as kids cannonballed off huge rocks. Tiny rainbows arched through the sprays of water.

One uncle always took along Sparky, their family dog. On one trip, he decided to let the little pug enjoy the river because, according to him,  “all dogs know how to swim”.  Sparky immediately sank like a rock in twelve feet of water. While his wife screamed, he abandoned ship and dove repeatedly, finally saving the drowning dog. Later, when it was time to drive home, he realized that now, instead of Sparky, his car keys and billfold were at the bottom of the river.

In late afternoon, we rounded a bend and saw the orange sunset reflecting off grandpa’s glasses as he stood waiting at our rendezvous point. The river moved swiftly there, so the men hauled themselves out of their tubes and waded us in.

Soon the smell of hot dogs sizzling from supple sticks filled the air. Damp towels hung like limp capes from kids’ shoulders while we listened to the ripple of the river, chirps of crickets and an occasional owl.

The moon rose cool and bright we reluctantly packed up to go home. We knew we would be back to celebrate another Fourth of July on the river that enticed us again and again.

How soon can you pull your wardrobe together for an Arizona River Cruise?

“Leap of Faith”

By

Gerry Niskern

When you think about it, Fathers have always taken a “giant leap of faith”

My grandfather brought his young wife, pregnant with their second child from Austria to the United States with only the vague promise of a job in a coal mine in Pennsylvania. He finally got the job in West Virginia and worked ten hour days for six days a week. It was back breaking work, with bad accidents and cave ins often. He managed to buy a large piece of land to farm to supplement the food supply for his large family. That was a giant leap!

My own father who worked on crutches for years as a time study engineer in a factory drove his young   family across the United States during wartime. He needed to get to the dry climate of Arizona to have surgery to save his leg. He settled us into an Auto Court while he looked for work and found a house to start buying. He learned to service an evaporative cooler so that his family was finally cool during that sweltering August long ago!

My own kids dad worked as an Apprentice Carpenter until he got his Journeyman’s card, then he learned to install floor covering. He eventually got into sales and then consulting across the country and in foreign countries too. He provided for his family, but his travels took him away from the kids during much of their “growing up” years. He always regretted that because, you see, Father’s role was beginning to change.

Dads were starting to do more with their kids. As work changed, society changed.  Fathers gradually learned the importance of spending time with their kids and employers were more lenient with work schedules. And, of course, the dads who had their own business could sometimes coach a sports team or another kid oriented group.

That brings me to my Grandson “father”. He confided to me recently that he didn’t see the need for Father’s Day celebrations. He said, “The way I see it, the pleasure was all mine!”.

This piece ran in the Arizona Republic previously. Maybe you missed it, or enjoyed it and would like to forward it to a new dad this father’s day?

“Dads learn easily, from the kids”

By

Gerry Niskern

We all know that new dads have a lot to learn. They catch on easily however, because they have the best teachers in the world; their kids!

From the time they hold their first baby, who is giving them that piercing “so you’re my dad “ stare,  they start thinking that maybe  this dad stuff is going to be a tough gig.

However, later on, at home, Dad is soon able to detect a hungry cry from a “give me some attention” noise. He also learns to remember if it’s his turn to get up. He finds out real quick that you can’t hurry the process, Junior doesn’t tolerate shortcuts; change diaper, give bottle, get burp up, change diaper again, then fall back into bed at last.

First time father’s love to put their little girl or boy into a toddler seat on the front of their bike and ride for hours.

As time goes by, dads learn another important lesson from their children. Some fathers make a lot of money and some are not paid what they are worth, but kids value the commodity all kids have an equal amount of: time.  They learn they need to care enough to spend that precious time just talking, sitting, watching his favorite football team and paying attention or just doing nothing together.

If dads learn their jobs well, they will look around someday and realize their offspring  have become pretty terrific adults. And of course the kids are relieved. They can get on with their lives. After all, they taught him all they could.

Then, one day, when dad receives a phone call, “Could you watch Junior for a couple of hours?” Grandpa’s ready. He was trained by the best.