The Rain is Coming

“Don’t worry, the rain is coming”

By

Gerry Niskern

(This column from the Arizona Republic seems appropriate again!)

It’s late this year, and worrisome. We usually have a first big storm by the Fourth of July. But, relax, it’s coming, and it always comes with a bang! Here are some memories of past wet summers many years ago. Enjoy.
One day, years ago it was raining so hard I could hardly see them out on the sidewalk. One toddler ran by, laughing, the feet of his soggy sleepers slapping the pavement. Baby brother came into sight; his drenched diaper, laden with rainwater, dragging behind. Big sister in pink pajamas led the parade of upturned, wet faces squealing with the joy at the rain that had finally come after a long period of despair.
That year, in the late l950s’, the residents here in the valley had waited months for relief from the drought. On the days my children ran outside barefooted the pavement was scalding. The dry grass stubble was prickly and so were tempers. Respite came, as always, sometime in July.
We have had years of drought and years of unbelievable rains. That summer, before the rains came, the huge dust storms, the weathermen now call them Haboobs, left an inch layer of dirt on the bottom of everyone’s pool. The kids begged to swim, so I became an expert at pool vacuuming…every single morning!
The thunderstorms that sometimes come tearing thru the valley create havoc, but just manage to give everyone’s grass a good soaking. It’s hard to believe, but sometimes we do get too much precipitation.
Years ago, in the l940’s when I was a kid, the rain finally came and drenched the parched ground, but didn’t stop. The Cave Creek Dam finally broke. The railroad tracks along Nineteenth Ave dammed the water. The residential area around the Arizona State Capitol building had heavy flooding. We kids, in the blissful ignorance of childhood, just enjoyed riding our bikes through the knee high water flowing curb to curb in the streets. We didn’t realize that most of the businesses were sandbagged and the Capitol basement had flooded.
We were even treated to our first look at an U. S. Army amphibious vehicle. The Seventeenth Avenue underpass was flooded too and the kids all watched in awe as a group of soldiers came down the street and drove right through the deep water.
I’ll never forget my dad returning from hiking alone on South Mountain. He was caught in a downpour so hard that he said, “I couldn’t see or breathe. I was really beginning to panic!”
I remember a neighbor at that time telling my folks, “Back in l938, the Salt River really overflowed its banks. The Central Avenue Bridge was holding the water back and all of central Phoenix was in danger of being flooded. Just as they were ready to light the fuse to dynamite the bridge, the water started to subside.”
One other summer, when my kids were in their teens, around 1970, we lived in a different neighborhood and the rains were again unrelenting. The ground was saturated and one Saturday morning police drove through the area shouting on loud speakers, “Attention, Prepare to evacuate!” Arizona Canal just North a few blocks of us was starting to overflow its banks
The rains this summer won’t end the drought, only heavy winter snows do that; but as always, they will surely nourish our spirits.
Meanwhile, the scent of wet creosote bushes on the mountain above me, mixed with the pungent smell of desert grass below will be like heaven as I watch the rabbits and quail scurrying for shelter from the rain that is sure to come soon.

I had a Play Date

I had a play date.
By
Gerry Niskern
Last Sunday, My great-grandkids and their friends came over to play board games. They know how much I Iove to play those competitive games. These kids are in their twenties. One is in physical therapy school, one is working with his dad in the family business, one is preparing to start Medical school in August and working as a EMT to save money, and one is a server, and “looking.” So they’re busy. Just like other members of my family and everyone’s family these days. But they take the time.
For some reason, it reminded me of Children’s Day. It used to be celebrated in June. I remember Children’s Day being a big deal when I was a kid. Special programs were held in school, church and the community. A minister in Massachusetts started celebrating Children’s Day in 1856. It was never officially declared in the United States until President Clinton designated a Children’s Day to be on October 8. I think everyone would agree that every day seems to be children’s day in today’s society.
Instead, I think we should celebrate an “Adult Kid’s” day. A day to thank and honor all the grown-up kids who help their elderly parents in innumerable ways every day. Those are the kids who call often to check in. They offer rides to the doctor appointments, pick up groceries, help with house hold problems, and best of all, they take the times to have real “sit down “ conversations.
The biggest complaint of my Senior friends is that, although they are grateful for the help they receive from their adult kids, they “never want to take the time to have a conversation. They are in and out as quickly as possible!” I can understand their frustration. I’m grateful that I have two sons that each sit down every week and have real discussions with their Mom about “everything under the Sun”. We haven’t solved all the world’s problems yet, but we’re doing better than those guys in Washington. And a grandson who checks in by phone almost every morning.
When adult children make the effort to show a genuine interest in an elderly parent and listen to their opinions it “nurtures the soul and gladdens the heart”. Sometime it is not easy to make the time but often they learn that a parent has a unique story. And they take the time to hear it, sometimes “more than once”.
So, I move that we celebrate a national Adult Children’s Day. They deserve it!